I am currently a 4th year undergraduate student. I am about to start the process for applying to grad school and med school (in case grad school doesn’t work out). However, the idea of asking former profs and lab supervisors for references is absolutely terrifying to me and is making me second guess grad school. I keep comparing myself to other undergraduate students with more work experience and are way more extroverted than I am and as a result, I am putting myself down.
I was wondering if there was any undergrad students undergoing a similar process as me or if there was any grad students out there with SA that went through the same process and how they dealt with the anxious feelings associated with applying to grad school.
Any advice is much appreciated